The way to build good relationships is to show so much care for a person that they just can't stand to ever do wrong by you. Believe in the power of good because it is a powerful force.
Some people have been mistreated and dogged so much that they HAVE to be skeptical of everyone that they meet including the good people. Be the first to show them that good people aren't hopeless and that good people are un-movable!
It takes more strength to be good towards someone than to whip they motha$#cking @$$ when they are beyond deserving it! Stay strong. Be kind.